By Darwin Del Fabro – A Writer, Singer, Actor, and Producer.

In the heart of Brazil, as I rest and recover from my final surgery—the reassignment surgery—I find myself reflecting on the profound lessons my dad taught me about manhood and, ultimately, about being true to myself. My name is Darwin, a nod to the scientist of evolution, and it feels fitting because my journey has been nothing less than an evolution of self. 

Growing up, my dad represented a kind of masculinity that defied stereotypes. He was not just a strong figure; he was a man of compassion, respect, and acceptance. He showed me that to be a good man is to be open-minded and to embrace diversity—not just in others, but within oneself. In a world that often tries to box us in, my father taught me the value of thinking outside the box, of breaking down barriers, and challenging societal norms. 

As I transitioned, some might have expected me to erase my past or adopt a new identity entirely. But for me, embracing my history was essential. I chose to keep my name, Darwin, holding on to the pride I feel about my journey. My past is not a burden; it’s a testament to my resilience and the experiences that shaped me. The process of becoming who I am today reflects the belief that authenticity is an ongoing journey, one that can and should be celebrated. 

In the times leading up to my surgery, my dad was my rock. He wasn’t just there to help me heal physically; he was an unwavering source of support, reminding me of the importance of being proud of every step I took along this path. His presence showed me that true strength comes from vulnerability and unwavering love. He embodies a brand of manhood that resonates with love for all, respect for different cultures, and a commitment to equality. In a society that sometimes pushes back against these values, my dad stands firm, signaling to me that being a man means more than adhering to traditional roles; it means being genuine and open-hearted. 

With each challenge I face, I am increasingly aware of how these lessons intertwine with my identity as a woman. My father’s teachings empower me to celebrate my femininity, but they also encourage me to acknowledge the complexity of my journey. Being authentic to oneself is a process that doesn’t end; it’s a daily commitment to growth, reflection, and kindness. 

As I navigate this next chapter of my life, I hope to carry forward my dad’s legacy of compassion and strength. 

My name, Darwin, will forever symbolize not just the transformation I’ve undergone but the evolution of how I view manhood, womanhood, and the beautiful spectrum in between. I embrace my past, understanding that it informs my future, while I strive to be the best version of myself. 

In the end, I hold fast to the belief that authenticity is a journey with no finish line—a path filled with discovery, pride, and enduring hope that, just like evolution, the process of being true to oneself is a vibrant, ongoing adventure. That’s the legacy I cherish, and it’s one I hope to share with the world